OVER RESPONSIBILITY

 

 

Monkey Mindset 

Expansive Mindset

I believe that if someone I care about is not making a good choice, it is my responsibility to do something about it, if I don’t I am partly responsible for the consequence.

I believe that people are responsible for their own lives and the choices they make. Consequences of their actions are not my fault.

If I set a limit with someone or state a preference, I feel responsible for their feelings.

When I set a limit or state a preference, I can be sensitive to other’s feelings without taking responsibility for them.

 If others do not do their fair share of the work, it is my responsibility to take up the slack.

If others do not do their fair share of the work, it is not my responsibility to step up.  I am willing to allow the consequences of other people’s action or inaction.

I tend to put other people’s needs before my own.

I believe that taking care of myself is more or as important than taking care of others.

When others are in pain I become upset and try of fix their problem and/or point out what they are doing wrong.

When people are in pain, I can listen with compassion but it is not my job to fix or solve their problem

 

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